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8 Things That Men Really Hate About Women

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8 Common Things Men Really Hate About WomenNo one wants to admit their
fault whenever relationships go sour, but whether we like it or
not, it takes two to tango and sometimes, we women might
unknowingly do things that just annoy men tremendously or even make
them hate living with us.

The same goes for cheating. It isn’t either the man’s nor
the woman’s fault that one party turns to cheating but nevertheless,
certain tiny things might start throwing sore notes until one day,
the relationship is driven to a point where it’s tough to come
back from – or to the point where one half tries to find intimacy
and love from somewhere else.

When you go down the following list, you might realize that
you’ve done some of those things yourself too without even
knowing. However, sometimes these are the exact things that make
men hate living with women and being in the relationship up to the
point where they decide to break it off.

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1. Not paying attention to what he says

You might be wondering: isn’t it the other way around?
Usually, men get the blame for not paying attention to their
partners
but actually, the blame is shared by both genders.

Many women get used to being the center of attention in the
relationship but forget that a relationship is all about balance.
When your partner is sharing something with you – news, an idea
or anything else – pay attention and speak to him about it more
closely. Don’t just nod and move your attention elsewhere or even
worse – start speaking about you.

If you keep ignoring him, it might end with him finding someone
else to speak to since he has realized he can’t share his ideas
with you – simply because you don’t pay attention to him.

2. Constantly trying to hit relationship goals

You’ve probably seen tens of Facebook or Instagram posts
celebrating a relationship goal or praising how
something a couple did is “such a cute couple goal”. This
social media phenomenon has lead to a situation where many women
keep comparing their own relationship with these social media
“couple goal” posts and refer to these posts while spending
time with their partner.

However, if this is done often, your partner might feel
pressured as you keep hinting things you’d like him to do without
letting the relationship run smoothly. This leads to the
relationship feeling forced and your partner frustrated.

Let the relationship go in its direction and appreciate the
things he does. Don’t compare your relationship to others –
everyone’s different, just as relationships are.

3. Putting too much focus on your relationship in social media

Social media can be a great friend or your worst nightmare. As
much as running after couple goals ruin your relationship, so does
too much focus on social media in general.

Some women tend to live out their relationship virtually.
Tagging their boyfriend everywhere, freaking out when he doesn’t
hit the ‘like’ button as soon as you expected or doesn’t
comment on every picture, forcing him to pay attention to you on
social media – there are numerous ways you can ruin your
relationship when you focus on how your relationship is doing
online.

Focus more on real life, not social media – it’s as easy as
that. Otherwise, you risk having that “single” status there
sooner than imagined.

4. Trying to make him jealous

Ever tried making your boyfriend jealous by focusing on another
man, hoping to get more attention from your boyfriend? While you
might think it’s a good idea, it will actually result in the
opposite – him seeing that the relationship is going nowhere.

Men aren’t stupid – they see right through it when
someone’s manipulating with them. Purposely making him jealous
just drives him further from you.

5. Being untrusting

Perhaps he has friends that seem “shady” to your or hobbies
you don’t quite approve of? These feelings might lead to you
throwing neurotic comments like “Is that really the whole
story?”, “Where are you really going?”, “Is that a good
idea?”

There’s nothing more annoying than someone constantly
second-guessing in what you’re saying or doing. This kind of
behavior just makes your partner think you don’t trust him. Let
him be free and make his own decisions, just be sure you’re there
to support him.

6. Constant complaining and nagging

“My hair is such a mess”, “Ugh, I hate my skin”, “She
gets on my nerves all the time”… Does that sound familiar?

While there’s nothing wrong with sharing your thoughts with
your partner, sometimes these conversations turn into a whole
myriad of complaints, either towards yourself or someone else.
Sometimes, these comments might be even directed towards your
partner – you might hint how his socks smell, how he should put
the toilet seat back, how he needs to drive or anything else. You
might think these comments mean nothing but to him these sound like
constant painful blows.

Just keep in mind that even if it’s okay to share all of your
thoughts with your partner, there’s a limit where your comments
start sounding like constant nagging. He wants to spend time with
you and talk to you, not get hit by complaints that make him feel
as if you’re his teacher or mother, not his partner.

7. Being overly dramatic

Many men fear one question: “How do I look?” They fear it
mainly because of the possible dramatic reaction that might be
followed, starting with exaggerative comments such as “Is that
all you can say?” and ending with exclamations such as “I’m
not going out!”. It all starts from small things and blows up in
epic proportions.

No man likes overly dramatic behavior, especially if it tends to
be constant. It will just drive him towards someone who takes
things more calmly and behaves more “chill”.

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8. Letting him play the guessing-game all the time

You might think it’s cute to tell him to surprise you, but if
he surprises you with something you don’t really like and you get
offended or mad because of that, it’s an epic mistake that can
hurt your partner’s confidence and drive him away from you.

Men want to know what you like – no matter if it’s about
food, jewelry, clothes, sex or anything else. If they know exactly
what you like, they can surprise you with things you’d definitely
enjoy, instead of tolerating you being mad at them for a week
because of a surprise-gone-wrong. Don’t try to play a “mystery
woman” with your partner – there’s nothing sexy about it,
instead, it becomes a sore point in the relationship.

Guys appreciate it if you’re straightforward and more
importantly – you don’t play any games. Let the
relationship move naturally and stay true to yourself.

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